do you know what pisses me the fuck off? having a boyfriend who does all of the following :
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flirts with every other girl and then denies he does any of it when you ask about it.
has the nerve to bitch at you when you call your FRIEND something like babe.
has the nerve to constantly bitch about how he thinks you'll cheat on him when he flirts with every girl.
has the nerve to complain about you wanting to see his phone, or something like that, even though he knows hes wrong.
when you go out of your way to make sure they are happy, but when it comes to your feelings, youre always feeling like shit.
when its all about him, all the damn time. no matter what youre ALWAYS cheering him up or making sure his feelings are alright. what the fuck.
when you give 150 percent into the relationship, do all kinds of things, and you feel like he is barely giving 15 percent in.
lies to his friends about being busy before youre even going out with him, so that all of your friends start to hate you because they think youre the one making him lie to them.
never hangs out with his friends cus he hangs out with you then bitches about not hanging out with his friends.
doesnt go anywhere with you except his house or yours, and maybe, very rarely another friends house.
picks fights with you for no other reason then him thinking its funny.
takes advantage of all the nice shit you do for them.
you constantly do shit for them, take them into consideration, and their feelings and they step on you.
when they make it out to make it look like youre the bad guy, all the damn time
when they lie so much that you have already stopped hoping they would keep their word.
when they constantly say they will change and then as always, never do.
when they know they're wrong and shit but instead of apologizing they decide to be assholes and make you feel like shit.
when they take consideration for other peoples feelings over yours.
how they say you both are best friends and shit, but doesnt act like it.
when they say that you come before anyone, and then puts other people's feelings in front of yours.
when they say,' i dont understand what i did wrong,' when its fucking obvious.
when they dismiss how pissed you are and have the nerve to act like its overreacting.
when they dont own up to what theyre doing wrong and stop it so that it doesnt lead up to something more.
how they say shit to other people that should only be between each other.
how they call other people your nicknames.
how they do shit that only you two did together with other people.
how they lie out of their fucking ass about everything, instead of telling the truth like you both agreed you could do.
how they have the nerve to then act like everything's okay, when they know it's definately not.
how even before you were both going out, you were busting your ass to make them happy and they still dont realize how much shit you went through for them.
the list goes on and fucking on, but the worst part is that after we've broken up and decided to stay best friends, you still are the same lying person, who never means anything he says, and i'm finally starting to see you won't ever change.
a good relationship should be one where you have trust in the other person, and don't have to constantly be suspicious of whether or not they are lying. you shouldn't have to want to rip their freaking heads off and they should make you feel like you have to keep trying harder even though your working yourself to the bone to keep things okay. fuck that shit.
i remember when i tried to warn you about it.
ReplyDeleteand now it seems like you finally see i wasn't lieing.
watch your mouth because you have no idea what this is about.
ReplyDeletethis isn't only one relationship, it's several meshed together.
so before you continue in your high and mighty act, i suggest you get the facts straight and don't comment on things you don't know, or else you just look stupid.
and if this is stephy, im going to kick your teeth outta your mouth when i see you, just reminding you.
lol. Thats funny how you tell me what to do when you have no idea who this is.
ReplyDeleteI could give two shits about stephanie.
i said IF, duh.
ReplyDeleteand no shit i dunno who it is,
you wont tell me, because secrecy is easier for you.
i'm just saying, you shouldnt say shit about things you have no place in nor idea of.
and good.
I have a pretty good idea of what I'm talking about. And I'm no saying shit, I'm stating what I know.
ReplyDeleteobviously its not what you know,
ReplyDeleteif youre wrong about it.
being that what you originally stated,
was an incorrect assumption.
No what I originally said was a correct statement. I stated that I did warn you about it. And I wasn't lieing.
ReplyDeleteThis entire blog explains exactly what I tried to tell you a long time ago.
Obviously, It's what I do know.
Therefore, It was a correct statement.
really? so you're telling me that you've known me since i enetered my very first relationship? lmao, i'm sorry, but you're digging yourself into the ground.
ReplyDeleteif you would read, when i say that this is about several of my past relationships, then you'd understand that your statement was incorrect.
because you were focused on one in particular which you probably don't even know for sure is exapmled by my post.
Oh excuse me?
ReplyDeleteDoes it say your talking about every relationship?
Does it say you were talking about every boyfriend you've ever had?
No, as far as i recall.. Your stating one.
And I'm focused on the one, I'm sure I know very well, and plenty of others know very well.
But whatever, keep living in your little dream land. You seem so oblivious.
guess what? i did state that when you first decided to open your big ass mouth.
ReplyDeleteim not oblivious, because being oblivious is when youre completely unaware of your surroundings, etc. you fool.
stop trying to act like a stubborn little know-it-all and accept that you made a mistake, because you did not know what you were talking about.
just because you THOUGHT you, doesn't mean you were right.
which obviously you weren't.
you need to accept the fact that you will be wrong from time to time and be a little more grown up about it.
and like i said, if youre talking about sebastian and i, seeing as that's the one so many of you petty little girls enjoy bitching about, let me say this to you straight out.
our relationship was good, and he never treated me the way he treated all of you, and that's something all you need to deal with.
we decided to end it because i had too much on my plate at the time and was stressed and I was snapping at HIM.
so get off your high horse sweetie,
and stop hiding behind your computer screen.
I know how to accept my mistakes, But this isn't one of them.
ReplyDeleteI know what you stated in your blog.
I read it. I'm not slow.
And you snapping at him? Well, I don't really see much of that in this blog. All I see are his mistakes. Not yours.
Treated you good? This blog doesn't even go near the statement of "Good"
Well good for you. You ended it. Thats great.
And honestly? That wasnt sarcasm.
Your life will probably be alot easier.
I'm not bitching about a thing.
You just take too many things too offensively.
Ha, thats funny. I dont hide behind my computer screen, actually, this is the one time I do go on, If you checked my replies, there normally around this time. :)
But considering this conversation is over.
Ill be on my way.
Goodbye.
you are really thick headed because if you could read you would again realize this is NOT about him and i, but other relationships.
ReplyDeleteim friends with ALL my ex's and this is directed to past ones.
maybe if you actually comprehended what i wrote, you would understand that.
and you wouldnt sound so stupid right now.
and as for sebi and i, you dont know him at all.
hes one of the sweetest kids you could meet.
just because he treated probably you and others like shit, doesnt mean he treats me like that, haha.
he's been one of the most dependable, trust worthy people in my life,
and my life would be harder without him.
so stop talking about things you dont know.